Monday, 22 Jul 2019

Female Sexual Arousal. Real Life Stories

Female Sexual Arousal

LINDA, United States

“THIS SPARKED CHILLS RUNNING ALONG MY THIGHS”

Orgasm (male/female sexual arousal) has come to mean a replenishment of energy—a vibrating splash that then throws you into the cave and you end up floating with this feeling. It’s like tiny pearls popping off of a strand—pearls that pop, pop, pop, pop, pop, pop, pop, pop until it’s over. It puts you in a kind of echoing space that overcomes and leaves you so quickly, but it also reminds you of this access you have to something so much larger than yourself. It can be so extraordinary, almost like the vast ocean, and in another instant you come back to where you are.

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Female Sexual Arousal

Female Sexual Arousal. I had my first orgasms (my first female sexual arousal) when I was six or eight. I had this habit to take the card table in to where my parents were watching TV, and I would put all the blankets from my bed over the card table and make a tepee. One day I had this urge to… take off my pajamas in there. It was all cozy. My father used to make me a ginger ale mixed with grape juice and hand it in to me. So I took the ice cubes out of the glass and I was sucking them and touching, seeing how it melted on my body. And then I saw how it melted on my private area.

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Female Sexual Arousal

Female Sexual Arousal. And it was freezing, and it felt really good, and then I put the cube back in the glass and started touching, exploring my private area with my fingers. And I had a big sweat—a big sensation—and I was afraid to come out. I don’t know exactly what happened, but it was very exciting, because I was afraid to see my parents, who were watching TV around my little tepee. For a long time I brought various objects like pine needles into the teepee and used them to excite myself. I stroked with them—they were soft, like the feathers in a quilt. The little points also pricked me, and this sparked chills running along my thighs.

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Female Sexual Arousal

Female Sexual Arousal. I hoped this sensation would never end. Eventually the dazing, crazy unique encounter subsided and I fell back against the floor to absorb my new feelings. It took a few minutes until I was able to get up. I didn’t think it was bad or good. I didn’t know what it was. Possibly the next time I had an orgasm was when I was 10 or 12, when the boy next door put leaves down my pants, in my bra… and it unleashed that sweaty little sensation down there. My strongest orgasm (female sexual arousal) was with a boyfriend in my early 20s. He and I just wanted to use oil all over our bodies, with total abandon, without worrying if there was oil getting on the sheets or oil getting anywhere.

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Female Sexual Arousal

Female Sexual Arousal. In fact, a whole bottle of oil was poured into a basin. And with the freedom [of it] not coming from the little spout, but a big basin, which you could put your hand in. We slathered oil all over each other’s body. And I felt the smoothness of the oil stick to the skin. It created a kind of filmy milk. And we brought it all over us: into the face, touching the sex area, encompassing the whole system.But it wasn’t a massage. It was an exploration of the feeling of the oil on the legs, on the arms and belly, and in our hair, in our eyebrows, all over us.

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Female Sexual Arousal

Female Sexual Arousal. We started to be aroused, and touch each other and… I kept feeling something was building and building, and then we made love. We had this extraordinary, super-sensory orgasm, together. We just kept the orgasm going and going and sliding in the oil and it made me… you know, I didn’t know if it was this white man, a black man, a… I didn’t know which country I was in or… It was like nothing I ever felt before. It was foreign, and exciting, and it took me… to a new world. It was totally free and fulfilling. It was as though many men from many places… like an ancient way of something, and it was the best. For my fantasies I have a little series of mental things I do that get me in the mood when I’m by myself. And it works, sometimes.

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Female Sexual Arousal

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Marion Schneider

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