Sunday, 18 Nov 2018

How to Spice Up Sex Life

Healthy Sex Life

THE SEDUCTION. HOW TO SPICE UP SEX LIFE: Many people spend their lives being in control, so it can be sexy to give up control and let your lover have his or her way with your body. When you’re tied up, unable to move, all responsibility beyond enjoying the sensations is taken away. And for the person doing the tying, having their partner in their power can be very erotic.

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How to Spice Up Sex Life

SETTING THE SCENE. HOW TO SPICE UP SEX LIFE: While bondage can be practiced in any room, go for the comfort of your bedroom while learning the ropes. Have your restraints on hand and set out some feathers, soft brushes, and other tactilely pleasing items for teasing. Any bed frame with space to pass a rope or handcuffs through is ideal.

Avoid restraints that will tighten too much and cut off circulation; for example, metal handcuffs can leave bruises. Fur-lined cuffs, while a bit pricey, are safe, prevent chafing, and can either be fastened to bedposts or used alone in a variety of positions. A cheap alternative is T-shirt material—it ties securely but has plenty of give. Make sure you have a pair of scissors on hand in case you have trouble undoing the knots.

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How to Spice Up Sex Life

TECHNIQUES. HOW TO SPICE UP SEX LIFE: Secure your partner’s wrists and ankles. They should be comfortable yet securely fastened, with as little or much play in the restraints as you both find sexy. A blindfold can add more spice to the seduction. Not being able to see what your partner is about to do next can be an enormous turn-on.

Once you have your partner tied down, tell him or her what you’re going to do. Take the feather or brush; run it lightly up and down his bound body. Avoid direct contact with nipples and genitals at first; if you’re doing it right, she’ll beg you for it.

THE SEDUCTION. HOW TO SPICE UP SEX LIFE: How sad that so many straight men are missing out on an incredibly erotic experience because they’re afraid enjoying anal play somehow makes them homosexual. Silly boys.

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How to Spice Up Sex Life

SETTING THE SCENE. HOW TO SPICE UP SEX LIFE: The keys to enjoying anal play are communication, relaxation, and lots of lubrication. First, tell your partner what you have in mind while giving him a massage. Use a latex glove or finger cot (which looks like a little condom, but for your finger), both for hygiene reasons and to  protect delicate tissues from your fingernails. Definitely trim your nails beforehand.

TECHNIQUES. HOW TO SPICE UP SEX LIFE: Before you go anywhere near his behind, make sure you let him know what you have in mind. Maybe he’s only ready for you to circle a well-lubed finger around his opening while he lies on his back. Respect his comfort level and don’t be afraid to take your time. When he’s ready, he may be able to bear down on your finger, or let you slowly slip your finger into him. Aim towards his belly button rather than his back and slide it in up to the knuckle. Be patient and wait for his anus and sphincter muscles to accommodate you. When he’s mastered the basics and is ready for more, you can really blow his mind with a prostate massage. It’s comparable to a G-spot for men.

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How to Spice Up Sex Life

As always, use lots of lube and start him off by spending some time warming up his member with either your mouth or your hand. When you have him good and ready, slip your finger into his anus about two or three inches and crook it toward his pubic bone. You’re there when you feel a little bulge about the size of a nut. Use a “come here” gesture to stroke it. Do this while you’re sucking or stroking his penis, and you’ll give him one of the most mind-blowing orgasms of his life.

THE SEDUCTION. HOW TO SPICE UP SEX LIFE: Most of the fancy maneuvers in classic erotic manuals like the Kama Sutra or The Perfumed Garden are just variations on good old standbys like the missionary position. 

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How to Spice Up Sex Life

SETTING THE SCENE. HOW TO SPICE UP SEX LIFE: The key word here is comfort. Use your softest sheets, your most luxurious blankets. Light scented candles and turn the lights down low. Throw down extra pillows.

TECHNIQUES. HOW TO SPICE UP SEX LIFE: First, some simple but hot enhancements to try: Take your hand and guide him inside you; men love the feel of their lover drawing them in. Match his strokes with the movement of your hips. Grind against him. Rub your clitoris against his pubic bone. Swivel your hips like a belly dancer. Now look deep into his eyes, and treat him to a few quick squeezes with your PC muscle. Clench your muscles in time to his thrusts inside you. Vary the speed and rhythm of your squeezes until both of you are moaning with pleasure.

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How to Spice Up Sex Life

READY FOR SOME VARIATIONS? WIDELY OPENED POSITION: Think of this as a sexy version of yoga’s Bridge Pose. Bend your knees, arch your back, and push up against him, bringing your hips off the mattress. He may need to rise up on his knees a little and support himself on his arms to give you room to maneuver. Throw your head back and enjoy the delightful friction between your clitoris and his pubic bone.

REFINED POSTURE. HOW TO SPICE UP SEX LIFE: He kneels between your legs and pulls you up while cupping your bottom with his hands. If he draws your cheeks away from each other, he’ll provide some extra erotic stimulation. This also frees your hands to stroke his face, chest, and shoulders.

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How to Spice Up Sex Life

«Sexy Seductions»

Cynthia W. Gentry

 

 

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