Wednesday, 19 Jun 2019

Male and Female Orgasm

Male and Female Orgasm

“The Little Book of Sex Secrets”

Nicole Bailey

My orgasms come in all shapes and sizes. Sometimes they’re frequent; sometimes they’re elusive. Sometimes they’re slight and sometimes they send me flying. But the more I understand how orgasms work, the more control I seem to have over them.

SENSATIONAL SENSATIONS.

MALE AND FEMALE ORGASM

I’ve discovered orgasms can come in a variety of ways. In fact, orgasms don’t even have to involve contact with the Genitals. Back in the 1970s researchers collected students’ descriptions of their orgasms. Any references to penises, vaginas and clitorises were removed, and the descriptions were then presented to a group of judges. The result? The judges couldn’t tell the difference between the account of a male and a female orgasm. For fun, ask your lover to describe his orgasms – and describe yours. You may end up tearing each other’s clothes off. Here’s how some friends of mine described their orgasms (male and female orgasm):

“A sudden rush – euphoria followed by deep relaxation.”

“Convulsions all over my body that feel fantastic.”

“An exciting build up of tension, then sudden, fast relief.”

“A deep craving that I can’t ignore, then deep satisfaction.”

“A wave that comes and engulfs me. Time stops.”

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Male and Female Orgasm

HIS ORGASM – HOW TO KNOW IT’S COMING.

MALE AND FEMALE ORGASM

Here’s what you need to know about how he climaxes (male and female orgasm):

  • Unlike women, men reach a “point of no return” – this happens a few seconds before he actually ejaculates. Once he’s got to this stage, it’s impossible to prevent orgasm and ejaculation (even if you withdraw all stimulation from his penis). Signs that he’s reaching the point of no return are: his testicles are drawn up tightly to his body; his glans has deepened in colour; his body is tense, stiff or jerky; he’s moaning uncontrollably.
  • If he’s got a solid erection and droplets of pre-ejaculate on the tip of his glans, he’s extremely aroused – if he’s getting plenty of rhythmic stimulation on his shaft, the point of no return probably won’t be far off.

Ask him to go for several days without ejaculating (whether by masturbation or intercourse). His next orgasm will be much more powerful.

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Male and Female Orgasm

YOUR ORGASM – THE BEST ROUTE.

MALE AND FEMALE ORGASM

Try these suggestions to climax during intercourse (male and female orgasm):

  • Wait until you’re super-excited before you have sex.
  • Add frills! Depending on the sex position you’re in, add masturbation or slip a vibrating toy between your bodies.
  • Enjoy a hand-, toy- or tongue-delivered orgasm before or after sex.
  • Find out if there are any sex positions that tip you over the edge. Woman-on-top positions can help because they put you in control and you can bump and grind against his pubic bone.
  • Minimize distractions – orgasms are notoriously difficult to come by if you’re preoccupied or stressed. Keep your mind busy by moaning your lover’s name, gasping with pleasure or talking dirty.
  • The more you hope to climax, the more elusive orgasm can become. Try reverse psychology: tell yourself you won’t have an orgasm. If you don’t, that’s fine. If you do, it’ll be relaxed and enjoyable.

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Male and Female Orgasm

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