Tuesday, 17 Jul 2018

Moans and Screams in Sex

Moans and screams in sex

SCREAMING — HOW IT HELPS (AND HOW TO KEEP THE NEIGHBORS FROM CALLING THE POLICE)

Screaming is natural and is the body’s way of reacting to various intense stimuli. People automatically scream when they are startled, scared, or experience intense pain or intense pleasure. However, many women don’t feel that they should moans and creams in sex (scream or moan during sex) – what if someone hears them?

To try to suppress her moans and screams in sex and loud moans while experiencing intense sexual pleasure requires your partner to mentally focus on her mouth and ears, as well as her surroundings and who can overhear her. This pulls her concentration away from her genitals and the intense pleasure coming from them. She then starts thinking about the possibility of embarrassment and what others will think, rather than shutting off her thinking and just enjoy the sensations. The end result of choosing thought over pleasure is less-powerful orgasms.

Moans and screams in sex
Moans and screams in sex

Moans and screams in sex

Women often have stronger orgasms when they allow themselves to moan out loud or scream than when they forcefully stop themselves from making noise. But—and here’s the key—her sexual screams need to be unconscious, natural, and unforced. They need to be the inevitable result of the pleasure she’s feeling. The sounds themselves are not the source of stronger orgasms; they are the result.

Also, conversely, a woman does not need to scream as loud as she can in order to get strong orgasms since screaming louder than normal also requires a conscious act that pulls her concentration away from her genitals. Just let it be natural.

To save your wife from possible embarrassment, plan your marathon lovemaking session at a time and place where she is allowed to moan or scream as loud as she needs without anyone overhearing. There are a few different ways to do this.

Drown Out Her Moans and Screams in Sex

Of course, the best thing for your partner is for the two of you to be in a location where no one can hear you have sex. Do it when the kids are in school or visiting Grandma. Go to a hotel, a cabin, or a remote location in nature. Hell, you can even soundproof your bedroom if you want to.

If you can’t do any of those things, you can create loud background noise to cover her moans and screams in sex. She can cover her mouth with a pillow or her arm. If she’s comfortable with you doing so, you can also stifle her moans and screams in sex yourself by covering her mouth with a hand, arm, pillow, or sock. (Be careful with that last option: it might be intensely sexy for her, but it can also cut off her air if you do it wrong, and it prevents her from being able to give her safe word if she’s in pain or needs to stop.)

Don’t forget that if you can hear your neighbors, they can hear you too. Turn the television or stereo volume up, barely loud enough to be heard outside your door, but not too loud that the neighbors will volume up, barely loud enough to be heard outside your door, but not too loud that the neighbors will complain. Make sure your “noisemaker” is between you and the door, window, or wall that separates you from your closest neighbor. If your walls are thin and you have neighbors all around, use two or three noisemakers (a radio, the TV, etc.), all pumping out different sounds to create acoustic dissonance. This creates an imperfect “white noise” that will mask your partner’s moans and screams in sex. For the best privacy possible, use a white noise CD or a white noise machine.

Moans and screams in sex
Moans and screams in sex

Moans and screams in sex

Is She an Exhibitionist?

If your wife gets aroused by the idea or possibility of being overheard while having hard sex, then by all means let her make as much noise as she wants. Put on some white noise anyway, though, since you have no way of knowing how your neighbors may react to hearing your wife’s cries of ecstasy. Some people will be okay with hearing your partner scream, but others may be bothered or even offended, especially if she screams obscenities like, “Fuck me harder, harder!” You don’t want anyone to think your lover is a whore or a slut just because they overheard her sex sounds (moans and screams in sex). Besides, do you really want the police to knock on your door and interrupt your lovemaking session just because a neighbor complained about the noise?

Use Recordings of Her Moans and Screams in Sex

Here’s another thing that can spice up your lovemaking. While many women are embarrassed to watch video recordings of themselves making love because of their physical insecurities and hang-ups, these same women often enjoy listening to their voices recorded from a prior sexual activity. If your partner gets turned on listening to her own moans and screams in sex of ecstasy, have an audio recording of an earlier session playing in the room while you are having sex. Maybe even try to keep pace with the recording and make her moan and scream in exactly the same cadence. It will arouse her even more.

Moans and screams in sex
Moans and screams in sex

Moans and screams in sex

TALKING DIRTY AND CHEATING FANTASIES + MOANS AND SCREAMS IN SEX 

Why is it the most chaste, demure, and conservative woman may get incredibly aroused when she or her partner uses vulgar, degrading, and obscene language while having sex? How is it possible that women who never swear in the office or home suddenly transform into longshoremen (vocally, not literally) during vigorous intercourse?

Why do so many women who are utterly faithful to their husbands explode in passion in bed when they fantasize about having sex or a threesome with another man? Why do some women get excited fantasizing about a threesome with another woman?

Other common fantasies include having someone videotape a sexual encounter, having sex with strangers picked up at a bar or swinger’s club, and having sex with multiple men either at once or in a row.

Clever men know suggesting threesomes or cheating ideas to their partners can sometimes result in highly aroused women. It’s just like how your wife is usually feeling frisky after watching a Daniel Craig or Bradley Cooper movie.

Moans and screams in sex
Moans and screams in sex

Moans and screams in sex

The vast majority of women find sexual fantasy arousing—and for some of them, the more taboo the better! Your wife isn’t going to go out and pick up a stranger to have sex with, but the fantasy of doing just that can set her panties on fire.

This brings up an important point: Fantasies are just that. Don’t take them seriously. They excite her in the moment, but they mean nothing once the sex session is over—especially now that you’re using the techniques of this book.

What she says in the throes of passion can never be taken seriously or personally. Neither of you needs to feel guilty about anything you say to each other in the heat of sexual ecstasy, because neither of you are thinking straight while you’re aroused—and especially while you’re climaxing—since your brains have been hijacked by your genitals. Give yourselves permission to talk as dirty, and fantasize, as much as you want, even if the fantasies involve cheating.

Moans and screams in sex
Moans and screams in sex

Moans and screams in sex

That being said, never act out her cheating fantasies. Even if she agrees or wants to. I can’t stress this enough. Forget whatever you read in porn stories. Actually letting your partner cheat on you will destroy your relationship. Watching your partner have sex with another person if you’re present and involved can be sexy; giving her complete freedom to have sex with anyone whenever she wants will undermine your relationship and ultimately make her resent you. Don’t go there.

Why? Because cheating, even sanctioned cheating, diminishes each partner’s value in the other’s eyes. She starts seeing him as a wimp for letting other men have sex with her, he starts seeing her as a slut for having sex with them, and the relationship loses its bedrock of trust and respect. Both partners lose their self-esteem and self-respect, the cheating taints the relationship with dishonesty, and before long the relationship falls apart.

Moans and screams in sex
Moans and screams in sex

Moans and screams in sex

Not to mention what happens if other people find out about it! There’s an immense difference between a fantasy shared between two people and a reality that not only involves additional partners but also may be revealed to the world. The best way to keep your sex life respectfully private: never cheat.

We hope that in our article you were able to find something interesting and useful for yourself. Yes, moans and screams in sex play a huge role, the most important is to do everything sincere and with love. 

“ORGASMIC. An Illustrated Guide for Men on Sexually Satisfying Women”

EDWARD K. WATSON

Geoffrey Klepeis, Illustrator

 

 

 

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