Online Orgasm. Sex Games With Ice And Wax
THE SEDUCTION. ONLINE ORGASM: Instant messaging (IM) can be a great technique for couples to keep their sexual charge alive when they can’t be in the same room. Sure, it’s fun to hear your lover’s voice saying dirty things to you. But it might arouse something different to see her naughtiest thoughts scroll across the screen. This seduction gives you tips for how to have an online experience that’s safe, fun, and arousing.
SETTING THE SCENE. ONLINE ORGASM: Say your sweetie’s traveling out of town on business—or simply working late at the office. Set up a date to “talk” online. Install and open any of the many popular IM programs that work best for you. Then, get comfortable.
TECHNIQUES. ONLINE ORGASM: Once you’re both online, warm up by flirting. Ask her what she’s wearing. Tell her how much you miss her. Talk about how horny you’ve been feeling. Next, heat things up. Get more explicit. Let her know how you’re feeling your hardness through your pants, or even stroking yourself. Tell her all the things you might be too shy to say if you were actually talking on the phone: where you’d like to touch her, how you’d like to use your mouth. Yes, eventually you’ll both have to switch to one-handed typing. You might agree to take turns “typing” the other to orgasm. Feeling really daring? Try a webcam and give each other a private peep show.
You never know what fantasies might be stirred up when you’re simply typing your sexiest thoughts, your sexy stream of consciousness, into an IM window. But the chances are good that your mutual online action will make you hot to see your lover again, in the flesh.
THE SEDUCTION. ONLINE ORGASM: This seduction lets you play with two very opposite sensations—cold and heat—safely and effectively.
SETTING THE SCENE. ONLINE ORGASM: Setting up is easy. Simply have a glass of ice water on your nightstand or on the coffee table in your living room. You don’t even have to tell her what it’s for. Place some candles strategically around the room. Important: be sure to use plain paraffin candles, not scented or beeswax candles. Beeswax candles in particular burn at a higher temperature, and using them could result in serious burns. Be extremely careful about having lit candles anywhere near bed linens. Spread out a blanket or sheet on your rug or floor—preferably one that can be tossed if it gets too hopelessly covered in wax.
Sex Games With Ice And Wax
TECHNIQUES. ONLINE ORGASM: To warm up, spend some time kissing and fondling each other. When you’ve got her aroused, reach over to your nightstand and grab an ice cube. Trail it all over her body. Pay special attention to her nipples. Tease her by circling her labia with it, sliding it between her lips. (Don’t leave the ice in any one place for too long. You want to tease, not numb.) To heighten the sensations further, follow the ice cube with your tongue. The feeling of cold, then warm, will drive her wild.
Have her roll over and do the same to her backside, starting with the nape of her neck, gliding the cube down her spine and slipping the cube between her butt cheeks. (Don’t slip it inside, however, in consideration of delicate tissues there.) Now take your sensation play a step further by incorporating the wax. Because wax cools as it falls, start by holding the candle at least a few feet above her body. Then drip it on her, one drip at a time. The anticipation she’ll feel will be very intense and very erotic.
Sex Games With Ice And Wax
Cynthia W. Gentry