Penis Size. Interesting Facts and Useful Tips
Technique and Consideration Are What’s Important, Not Penis Size
Men’s obsession with the size of our dicks is frankly laughable. We’re bombarded with (and all too often, fall for) advertising for penis-enlarging pills or equipment just because we have been conditioned into believing women prefer larger penises. We can’t help but to measure ourselves in comparison with the penises of others and since the easiest guys to compare ourselves with are porn stars (who usually have very large cocks), the average guy thinks he’s too small to satisfy a woman.
This results in making the average male self-conscious about himself. Some men are so insecure that they spend thousands of dollars and hundreds of hours trying to enlarge their penises. Some even insert objects such as ball bearings under the skin of their penises to increase the girth. (I wish I were kidding. These cocks look seriously deformed, like they’ve been stricken with boils. Don’t go there!)
A man with a seven-inch (18 cm) penis may proudly compare his organ to the average man’s five to six inches (12-15 cm) but be intimidated when learning another wields an eight-inch (20 cm) rod. The man with the eight-inch penis is then demoralized when he finds that another man is walking around with a nine-inch (23 cm) tool. The man strutting around with a nine-inch “monster cock” feels puny compared to Jonah Falcon’s thirteen and a half inches (34 cm).
The sad thing is many men with monster cocks assume that their enormous size is sufficient to pleasure their partner, instead of taking the time and effort their women really need. This leads to miserable (and sore) women and the lack of a lasting, loving relationship.
I’m one of those who have been foolish enough to fall for the gimmick of penis enlargement. Despite being reassured by my doctor that I’m perfectly normal—and having never once been criticized by a partner, I paid for a stretching exercise program in the hopes of adding several inches so that I could become as large as the porn stars. The only real result was the loss of a hundred dollars (and a very sore penis). I wish I knew then what I know now.
Why do many women who have ex-boyfriends or ex-husbands with enormous penises eventually end up with men whose penis sizes are only four to six inches (10-15 cm) long? How can these women be satisfied with average-sized penises after experiencing monster cocks? If women prefer larger penises, why is it that nature endowed the vast majority of men with five- to seven-inch-long (13-18 cm) genitals?
A Four-inch-long Penis is More than Adequate
A so-called small penis, four inches (10 cm) in length, is only an issue psychologically—especially to those who are younger and more inexperienced. Ask yourself: if fingers, lips, and tongue can give earth-shaking pleasure to a woman, how is it possible the much larger four-inch or 10 centimeter penis can’t?
Okay, to understand this we need to get a bit technical. The vagina is only two and a half to four inches (6-10 cm) long and most of the sensitive nerve endings are in its first one and a half to two inches (4-5 cm). What this means in practical terms is even a micro-penis that is only as big as a thumb can stimulate the majority of a vagina’s nerve endings and cause great pleasure.
Furthermore, virtually all adult penises, even the so-called “pencil dicks,” are thicker than tampons. Since tampons are designed to touch the entire internal diameter of the vagina, anything larger in circumference will do likewise.
During sexual arousal, the upper portion of the vagina lengthens by one to two inches (2.5-5.0 cm) when the uterus and cervix ascend while the lower portion swells and narrows (the ballooning effect). This gives the average aroused vagina an overall length of three and a half to six inches (9-15 cm) prior to penetration, depending on the penile size it is accustomed to.
Think about this for a moment. What this means is an erect penis that is three and a half to six inches (9-15 cm) in length touches the same number of vaginal nerve endings as a seven to nine-inch (18-23 cm) penis. This is proof positive that size doesn’t matter.
Why? Because the vagina isn’t like an empty tube that is only partially filled by a small penis. It is actually more like a collapsed balloon that stretches to accommodate various-sized penises, resulting in the nerve endings merely being farther apart.
To repeat, the nerve endings don’t increase in number, they simply move farther apart to accommodate a larger penis.
Without getting even more technical, suffice to say the only sensory difference to a woman between an average-length penis and an above-average one is the impact force on her cervix and fornix from the head of the penis. A normal penis touching this area can cause minor pleasure or pain, but a long penis hitting this area hard (and repeatedly) hurts a LOT!
Monster Cocks Can Hurt!
And this brings us to the heart of the matter: Most guys never even think about the results of having sex with a gigantic penis, since the consequence of sex with monster cocks is never shown in porn movies. Since guys instinctively want to put their entire penises into the vagina, those with very long penises force the vagina to stretch as far as it can go. If it can’t expand any farther, pushing the penis deeper will cause damage.
Women can be in a lot of pain for days afterward, and even get infections. Some may require surgery to repair their injuries. Do you really think women look forward to repeated encounters with enormous penises multiple times a week when they’re in pain? At what point will they say no more?
Guys, if you want a longer penis, think about this carefully: If your penis suddenly grows four inches longer (let’s say to nine inches or 23 cm), the amount of sex you’re going to have with your partner is going to decrease dramatically. Both you and she may be excited to try it out the first time, but no woman wants to repeatedly have sex if the outcome is pain for days afterwards. Think of it this way:Would you want to have someone kick you in the balls every time you have sex? What makes you think women would want to constantly have sex with a monster cock if it hurts them afterwards? Sex should be something women look forward to, not something they dread.
No amount of cranberry juice, antibiotics, and painkillers can make up for the aftermath of very large penises. They’ll do it once, maybe twice or three times, and then avoid it as much as possible afterwards—just as you would if you saw another foot rapidly approaching your testicles.
For this reason, men with smaller or average-sized penises have sex more often than those with monster-sized genitals. It’s obvious why: women don’t get hurt by them!
If you happen to have a long penis and your lady doesn’t want to have sex with you anymore because of the pain; you’re going to have to go very slowly, make sure she’s super lubricated, use positions where you can’t go in all the way, and more than likely, wear a “donut” or wrap the base of your penis with something to prevent inserting your whole length into the vagina. As long as the penis fills the entire aroused vagina and just barely touches the fornix/ cervix, she will enjoy additional pleasure without experiencing pain.
So, guys, if your erect penis is at least four inches or ten centimeters long and fatter than a tampon, you have nothing to worry about. Your length should be enough to fill your partner’s entire vagina. Besides, even if your penis is not long enough, you do not need to completely fill it to give her the best orgasms of her life. While it’s preferable to fill the entire vagina, it isn’t necessary.
Don’t waste money making your penis longer to have less sex. (I sure am glad that stretching exercise did not work for me!) Forget about those penis enlargement pills and treatments. (And for the love of God, stay away from ball bearings!) Focus on technique and be a considerate lover. That’s all you need to rock your woman’s world.
“ORGASMIC. An Illustrated Guide for Men on Sexually Satisfying Women”
EDWARD K. WATSON
Geoffrey Klepeis, Illustrator