Sexual Pleasure. Sex You Will Never Forget
THE SEDUCTION FOR SEXUAL PLEASURE: Many people fantasize about having sex in a place where they might get caught. “Danger arousal” happens when fear causes the body to produce adrenaline, the same chemical your body makes when you’re horny. Recreate this thrill by having a party quickie.
SETTING THE SCENE FOR SEXUAL PLEASURE: Party trysts by definition preclude the possibility of long, drawn-out lovemaking: the longer you take, the greater your chances of being discovered. Underwear is an obstacle, so ladies, if you’re wearing a long fancy skirt, go without. If you’re wearing a shorter skirt, wear a G-string or thong that can be easily pushed aside. Guys, consider going “commando-style.”
Meanwhile, scope out possible locations: a guest bedroom, an upstairs bathroom, a secluded corner of the garden. Any room should have a lock; in a pinch, push a chair up against the door.
TECHNIQUES FOR SEXUAL PLEASURE: When the time is right, inform your date that you have to have him or her right now. Drag him off to whatever secluded spot you’ve chosen. Then get busy. In a bathroom, you can sit on the counter while he stands. Or turn around and brace yourself as he enters you from behind. This has the added, extra-hot benefit of letting both of you watch your reactions in the mirror. Standing positions also let you “recover” more easily if interrupted.
In tight spaces, like a walk-in closet, the gal can lie down and pull her knees to her chest while her guy kneels in front of her. At the office party, lock an office door and back a chair up against a wall, and lie back on the desk or conference table.
After you’re done, don’t linger. Just rearrange your clothes and return to the festivities, a big smile plastered on your faces.
THE SEDUCTION FOR SEXUAL PLEASURE: In this seduction, you’ll read erotica aloud to your partner, combining the power of the written word with the hypnotic effect of your voice.
SETTING THE SCENE FOR SEXUAL PLEASURE: Finding material for your erotic story time won’t be hard. Your woman may have her own stash of tried-and-true smut, but if you want to surprise her, most chain bookstores carry erotica. If you’re looking for a variety of voices, you can turn to annual erotica anthologies like Best American Erotica, Herotica, or Best Women’s Erotica.
If you aren’t confident in your storytelling voice, another option is to try an audiobook. Many erotica anthologies are available on CDs or as downloadable MP3 files. Some, like Cyborgasm or Cyborgasm 2, contain recordings of real sexual encounters as well. A great website to check out is Audible.com, which has an entire section on erotica and sexuality. Another is SimplyAudiobooks.com, where you can either buy or rent audiobooks like Anne Rice’s “Beauty” erotica series.
TECHNIQUES FOR SEXUAL PLEASURE: Get into bed together or stretch out on the couch and have her lay her head on your lap. Tell her that all she needs to do is close her eyes, relax, and listen, and that she is absolutely encouraged to touch herself if she feels so inclined. Then start reading.
Pause periodically to kiss and tease her. Keep one hand on her at all times. Absentmindedly play with her nipples, or slip your hand between her legs to gauge her arousal level. But no matter how much she begs, be sure to finish the story. But don’t feel guilty if you reach the climax way before you close the book.
THE SEDUCTION FOR SEXUAL PLEASURE: This seduction involves the use of sex toys called nipple clamps. Although they are often associated with bondage or fetish play, lovers can use them to heighten their pleasure without anyone being tied up. Essentially, nipple clamps produce an intense sensation that’s like having your skin sucked or bitten. The more aroused your partner is, the better the chance that nipple play will feel erotic rather than painful.
SETTING THE SCENE FOR SEXUAL PLEASURE: Because there are props involved, you’ll need to set up this seduction beforehand. Take her to a high-class adult store, or bookmark a few websites that sell adult toys and set an evening aside for browsing. The idea that she’ll be picking out the instruments of her pleasure will heighten the anticipation.
TECHNIQUES FOR SEXUAL PLEASURE: Have her relax while you massage or pinch her nipples lightly, or roll them between your thumb and index finger. Wet your fingers and stroke them across her. Tease her breasts with your fingernails, or suck her nipples gently. Once she’s aroused, it’s time to apply the clamps. The first time you try this, go slow. Place the clamp behind the tip rather than directly on it, which will be more comfortable and reduce the chance of the clamp falling off. If your toys have a strong bite, try clasping them around her areola first.
Experiment with the sensations. Encourage her to give you feedback about what feels good—and to pleasure herself, if she wants. Release the clamp slowly: she may feel a very strong sensation as the blood flows back, which could be as exciting as the application.
NOTE: Be careful with nipple clamps if she has breast implants or cystic breasts. Twenty minutes is about the maximum amount of time you should leave them on.
Cynthia W. Gentry