Sunday, 18 Nov 2018

Ways to Bring Sexual Spark Back in Your Relationship

Sexual Spark

THE SEDUCTION FOR SEXUAL SPARK: Spanking, like bondage, can add that extra spice of the forbidden to your bedroom play. In this seduction, you’ll discipline your partner with something you both should enjoy.

SETTING THE SCENE FOR SEXUAL SPARK: First decide who will be receiving and who will be giving the “punishment.” It’s worth talking about this and other details (such as how many spanks will be involved) in advance so expectations are realistic. Choose a “safe” word. Furniture and props can be as simple as a chair or couch with a padded arm, your hand, and your partner’s willing cheeks to spank. If you want to experiment with different textures, you can buy paddles made out of various materials, even ones lined with fur.

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Sexual Spark

TECHNIQUES FOR SEXUAL SPARK: Given this can be played either way, let’s say the woman has been naughty this time, giving you gents the chance to show her who’s boss…for the moment. Take her by the wrist (as gently or roughly as she finds sexy) and pull her over to you. Tell her she’s been very bad and you’re going to have to punish her. Push her down over your lap, ignoring any struggles or pleas for mercy she may try (unless she uses her safe word, which you must obey). If she’s wearing a skirt, flip it up. You can either leave her panties in place or pull them down to leave her totally exposed.

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Sexual Spark

Using the palm of your hand, spank the fleshy part of her buttocks (ladies, avoid your man’s testicles if you’re administering the spanking). You might also caress her cheeks with a feather in between spanks; her skin will be ultrasensitive with all the blood rising to the surface. To take the game further, toy with her clitoris a bit or put a finger inside her. Let her know what you have in store for her when the punishment is over!

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Sexual Spark

THE SEDUCTION FOR SEXUAL SPARK: Wouldn’t you love to have a man who performed with the same reliability and ability to hit your hot spots as your favorite vibrator? One who would let you direct his fingers and tongue to the right places without a murmur of protest? This is your chance!

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Sexual Spark

SETTING THE SCENE FOR SEXUAL SPARK: Make sure from the get-go your man understands he is not allowed to take any action unless you’ve directed him to do it. Vibrators don’t talk back and they don’t vibrate unless you hit the “on” button. Set up the shower so you have your favorite loofah or soft sponge on hand, as well as your largest, softest towels. In the bedroom, have on hand a good water-based edible massage oil, lube, a dildo, feathers, fur, anything you might want your toy to pleasure you with.

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Sexual Spark

TECHNIQUES FOR SEXUAL SPARK: Start by taking a shower or bath. Tell your toy where you’d like to be scrubbed and with what—where you like it hard and where you prefer a gentler touch. Have him wash your hair; few things are as relaxing and pleasurable as a good scalp massage. Have him dry you off with a towel, taking special care between your legs and buttocks. Lead him into the bedroom; lie facedown on the bed and have him rub you down with massage oil, allowing you to further relax and enjoy yourself. Flip over so he can massage your front as well.

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Sexual Spark

At this point, you might want him to play with your nipples with his fingers and tongue. Or you may be ready for him in between your legs for some oral pleasuring. You can tell him what “speed” you have him set on to give him an idea of how fast or slowly you’d like his tongue to massage your labia and clit. You might want him to penetrate you with a dildo while he goes down on you. If you enjoy backdoor penetration as well, have him grab another dildo and use both hands. It’s up to you.

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Sexual Spark

THE SEDUCTION FOR SEXUAL SPARK: Have you always dreamed of making love on the beach? This seduction helps you make the most of the experience.

SETTING THE SCENE FOR SEXUAL SPARK: Obviously, if you live inland and want the full-on experience of sand, surf, and piña coladas, this will be a pricier endeavor than if you already live on or near the coast. If you’re shy about baring it all outside but crave the sound of the waves and smell of the sea, a tent would be a good compromise. You can also wait untill the sun goes down, which reduces the possibility of sun worshippers interrupting your tryst. As a last resort, turn your living room into a tropical paradise. Mix up some daiquiris, put on some reggae or a track of the ocean, and spread out a few beach blankets.

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Sexual Spark

TECHNIQUES FOR SEXUAL SPARK: Pick a private spot for your seaside tryst. It doesn’t have to be a private beach per se, but unless you’ve perfected the art of making love without moving under a beach towel, being caught having sex on a public beach could ruin your day, not to mention your reputations and legal record. If you enjoy the thrill that comes with the possibility of being caught, this isn’t the time for a long-drawn out session. And you might want to wait until the sun has started going down before you…get down, so to speak.

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Sexual Spark

NOTE: Having sex in the sea isn’t such a good idea. It can introduce bacteria into the vagina, which puts you at risk for urinary tract and other infections. Plus, if you’re using a condom with spermicidal gel, the seawater can wash the spermicide out. Feel free to get each other hot and bothered during your afternoon dip, but save the actual nooky for dry land.

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Sexual Spark

«Sexy Seductions»

Cynthia W. Gentry

 

 

 

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