Sunday, 18 Nov 2018

Spanking in Sex for Bright Orgasms

SPANKING IN SEX: THE SECRET WEAPON TO MIND-BLOWING ORGASMS

Does your partner come close to orgasm but doesn’t cross the threshold into an actual orgasm? Spank her.

In the bedroom, with consent secured and a safe word selected, spanking is naughty and kinky; not abusive—and can be an amazing aid to push your partner over the edge into orgasm.

Many women are aroused by spanking in sex; the flashes of sharp pain turn them on. Others find the occasional slap on the rump naughty and kinky. Still others may not appreciate it at all (don’t spank them unless you first ask for permission—you’ll only get into trouble!). Spanking in sex sounds very alluring, does not it? 🙂

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Spanking in Sex

Spanking in Sex

Take Advantage of the Pudendal Nerve

The pudendal nerve is the primary nerve network in the pelvic region. It directly connects to the clitoris, vagina, and sphincter. Stimulating that nerve with a short sharp spank can feel like a miniature lightning bolt to every erogenous zone below your partner’s waist. 

When to Spank

Spanking in sex is best done when your partner is close to climax while your penis or fingers are inside her, when her senses are on fire with pleasure. At this critical moment, a sharp slap on the rump creates a sensory overload. The feelings of intense pleasure and pain mix together and overwhelm the woman’s nervous system, resulting in major orgasms. With a few more spanks you can create a cascading chain of orgasms, each spank creating its own accompanying climax or two. Often your partner can orgasm up to a dozen times this way before the pain of the spanks offsets the pleasure and the orgasms stop. Once this happens, go back to painless and passionate caresses . . . until she’s almost at her peak and ready to be spanked again.

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Spanking in Sex

Spanking in Sex

How to Spank

You don’t want to inflict bruises or pain on your lover. All you want to do is overload her nervous system so she will have multiple enormous orgasms. Spanking in sex is the best way to do this because it causes this sensory overload but inflicts no actual damage.

The best way to spank is to cup your hand, instead of having your fingers splayed. This gives a sharp pain that doesn’t linger. Never hit her hard or put your weight behind the slaps. All that is needed are shallow spanks that transmit quick flashes of pain to the pudendal nerve.

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Spanking in Sex

Spanking in Sex

Where to Spank

The best place to spank your woman is on the top of her butt, close to the anus, while in the rear-entry/doggy or reverse cowgirl positions.

If your stomach prevents you from hitting the target area in the doggy position, switch over to the reverse cowgirl, and have her lean forward toward your feet. While she approaches orgasm, give her a smack on the target area while you are deep within her, and see what happens.

These two positions are the best for spanking-induced orgasms because the buttocks are wide open, unobstructed, and in close reach of your hands.

Other positions, like the regular cowgirl or spooning positions, can work, but aren’t as effective. In those positions, you can usually only slap the sides of her buttocks, and those spanks don’t trigger climaxes the way full-on pudendal nerve spanks do.

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Spanking in Sex

Spanking in Sex

I discovered the benefits of spanking in sex entirely by accident. While engaging in a particularly energetic bout of love making, I spanked my partner right on the pudendal nerve while she was close to climaxing. The response was astonishing! She started spasming from having multiple orgasms one on top of another.

Upon further experimentation, I determined that this process consistently gave multiple orgasms. It gave more when I kept thrusting my penis or fingers in and out of her (4-7) and less when I pulled out (2-4).

A single smack worked better than a quick succession of spanks, but a smack every 20-40 seconds was ideal, depending on how quickly she recovered from her orgasms and started building the tension for a new orgasm. Alternating the spanking between the left and right cheeks seemed to produce stronger and more numerous orgasms than when I only hit one cheek.

Spanking in sex in the pudendal nerve allowed me to give my partner dozens of very strong orgasms within a single sex session.

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Spanking in Sex

Spanking in Sex

Lastly, if she enjoys it, don’t just spank her in the bedroom. Lovingly smack her rump whenever the opportunity presents itself. Do it around the house. Surprise her with it. If you’re feeling especially daring, do it in public . . . maybe while standing in line at the movies or while walking through the supermarket. It’s a fun way to remind her how much you want her—and how hard you make her come when you spank her during a sex session. We hope our tips concerning spanking in sex will help you to make your intimate life brighter and will add new colors into it. 

“ORGASMIC. An Illustrated Guide for Men on Sexually Satisfying Women”

EDWARD K. WATSON

Geoffrey Klepeis, Illustrator

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