Body Language: Flirting Rules and Something More ;)
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There are many books and movies where you can read or watch such scenes between woman and man which are usually finished in the happy end: wedding, kids, and life full of love. Well, despite that it’s banal and typical story and someone can tell: “it can be possible only in a movie”, however, a grain of truth is in it. People usually don’t pay attention much to gestures which every one of us shows to each other unconsciously. We usually are focused on the meaning of words. We notice polite or impolite behavior as well but it’s difficult for us to catch signals of the body which an interlocutor or a person, who we are interested in, exhibits in return.
Why it’s so important and why we started to consider this theme. One old saying tells: “If you can anticipate, then you can win!” That’s exactly what we are going to learn today: the main and important signals which person expresses by showing interests and which can be a clue for the beginning of the loving relationship. You can use or ignore all of it afterward, but for sure one day you will catch yourself while you start to notice and recognize these or those gestures. Okay, let’s get started!
We will start with men’s actions. So, man is a conqueror by his nature. That’s why he usually wants to exhibit his courage and strength for the interesting woman. He usually stands or sits confident, tightens his belly and his glance is directed toward her. He also might raise his eyebrows to indicate interest and have an enigmatic smile as well. He may fix his clothes: tie or shirt time to time. Sometimes, he will run his hands through his hair. And in most of these cases, it’s going unconsciously, unless he is a good pickup master. The man also might try to do the first step and use any things which help him to get the first contact with the woman, such like lightly touch to her fingers by giving phone or visit card. It’s the actually the most visible indicator that man is flirting with the woman.
What about the woman? The woman is a figure of sophistication and fragility. That means if she is interested in a certain man, she acts by catching his attention to her appearance. She may play with her hair and throw it over from one shoulder to another one. It should be mentioned, a man pays attention not only to these actions. His look might be stopped on the naked neck which woman demonstrates at the same time. The woman usually sits with cross legs. If her upper knee is directed toward a man, that’s a signal that she likes him. The flirting woman also might cross and uncross her legs time to time or take off her shoe. That means she feels free with him and ready to accept his actions. If the woman is sitting by stroking her leg or playing with jewelry or some cylindrical object, she is definitely interested in a man. Another indicator of woman’s interest is her lips. She can bite lower lip or slightly lick them. So, a man can expect that meeting with being finished with kisses. However, only a woman decides when to start physical contact.
So, we have just considered the main flirting indicators for both, man and woman. But how to figure out if the person doesn’t feel any interest in another. It can work for both genders. First thing, this person doesn’t look into the eyes and just looks around or observes other people. Actually, the easy way to know for sure if the person likes you or not it’s only by looking into his eyes. Eyes can’t lie, they always choose the object of true interests. Second thing, an uninterested person might yawn time to time. His glance might be stuck in the phone by looking for something or texting all the time. Pay attention to hands, if the person isn’t interested then his arms folded across his chest or his hands may be in pockets. It should be noted other important things which are opposite of all of these above here. If there is an exaggerated behavior, loud voice and some strange manner of talking then this person isn’t serious at all or just use flirting for hunting or having fun for one night. Keep your eyes open for getting your heart saved!
And in conclusion, despite any rules which you can read wherever and use it, don’t forget to put your sincere and true feelings. Flirting is like a dance if use only rules you lose passion! 😉