How to Become a Great Kisser? 5 Secret Tips!
The process of kissing is a real art. Most people love to kiss and it’s not surprising. Unfortunately, not everyone knows how to do it right. There are many advice, different articles, and rules about this. An interesting fact is that kisses can really prolong life. We have prepared 5 useful and secret tips that will help you to become the greatest kisser ever! Enjoy!
This is the first and very important rule. No one will want to kiss you if your mouth stinks or your lips are cracked. Also, if you have any diseases on your lips do not waste your attention and immediately run to the pharmacy. Kissing is amazing, but you must be ready to touch other lips. Kiss!
Even if you are not a good kisser and you know about it, you need to show to your partner that you are the best! Stay cool and confident and you will see the result.
A person, who knows what to do, always looks very cogently and inspires trust. Show your passion and interest but don’t too much because you will look very funny and foolish. Also don’t forget to hold your partner hands, caress legs, rub back – do something other than kissing to build up the anticipation. This secret will make your kiss more wonderful and unforgettable. Your lover will be surprised! Kiss!
Enjoy the process
Love what you do and do what you love. If you do not enjoy the process, then your partner will feel it in the first second! The kiss is the amazing thing. You can express all your love, all your feelings, and thoughts. Show your favorite person how much you love him! Kiss her. Kiss him. Kiss each other!
Use different techniques
There are many different types of kissing. It is very easy to diversify your sexual life. For example the technique of “Triangle”. “Triangle” is ideal when partners are face to face. Start kissing your partner on the lips. Then slowly go to the cheeks and from them to the neck. After that, go back to your lips. Another type of kissing is Inato. Inato is a gentle and romantic kind of kiss on the lips. This is a kiss with one’s lips and you cannot touch teeth. Give your partner an unforgettable experience! Kiss!
If you have never kissed before or it will be your first time with a new partner, please don’t be nervous! Your insecurity can spoil everything. Believe, everyone was scared to die before the first kiss, but when you do it, you will feel real pleasure and extas! The main thing is to make the first step. You can be afraid inside that your face and body should not show it. Kiss!
With every new date, both of you should be getting more relaxed and at ease with each other. This means that you can more comfortably touch each other, joke, try each other’s drinks etc. The bottom line is that you’re building a connection. You’re also learning about each other. Still here, you need to be patient and to not jump to conclusions too soon if something bothers you.
For example, I have a client who met this great man online. I believe they had about three or four dates. Being in her 40’s, she chose to slash her age in her online profile by a few years – just three years. While I do not advocate lying in the online profiles, I do think that women need to be given a little more leeway when it comes to their age. That’s mostly because society (and men) still often lean toward younger women. It’s just more challenging for women who get a bit older (but may still be young at heart) to get noticed. People should not misrepresent themselves and men especially should never lie about their age. That’s because it’s essential for men to show integrity and confidence in themselves. If a man is lying about his age, it right away sends the signal that he’s not confident and unsure of himself. A confident man is attractive at any age. And besides, women like men of any age!
In any case, she and that man had a few dates. She told me that their conversation was going so good each time that she just didn’t find the right moment to tell him that she was actually three years older than her profile said. She’s an honest girl but she’s also tactful, so she doesn’t jump into stuff quickly and wants to make sure the date will go somewhere.
Well, something happened. The guy asked her for her last name and I suspect he checked her background online. These days you can find info on nearly anyone with just a few clicks. I suspect he saw her age and maybe felt he didn’t want to be with a dishonest person. So he stopped calling her.
To this day, she is still wondering what happened. Everything seemed to be going great. She did tell me that she suspected he was waiting for her to “come clean,” but she just didn’t do it at the “expected” moment. She thinks this may have turned him off.
So, if a similar situation presents to you as a guy, don’t make this mistake. Give your date a chance if you liked her, even if there are small things that bothered you. So what if the woman gave herself three years less on the profile? Does this make her a totally dishonest person? Is she not worth learning about or getting to know better? Is three dates enough to really draw any kind of conclusion? For all we know, the guy just blew the chance of his life. No one has a totally clean past, without any baggage, right? So, don’t judge people too quickly. It would be one thing if the person completely misrepresented herself from the profile, but it’s another if she just fudged one factor. People have many reasons for why they do the things they do. No one is perfect.
The important thing to remember is that you need to focus on the most crucial things. Everything else is just noise and you need to ignore it. You’ll get to know the person slowly and you may find out some incredibly amazing things about her. At that point, the small age difference won’t matter that much. It’s all a matter of seeing the real person behind this. Sure, some people are pathological liars, but that’s not usually the case. Don’t dismiss a potential love connection by projecting something you haven’t actually 100% proven to yourself.
So, it’s important to remain open-minded, and open your heart to the possibility of love. If you’re too quickly scared or insecure, try to recognize this and talk to yourself. Say that it’s just you making up negative stories; your demons are trying to get the best of you, but you’re stronger than them. Give yourself and the girl more chances than you normally would. You’ll be surprised how many wonderful things both of you may discover.
Step Up The Momentum
If the dates are progressing well, you’ll notice her really connecting with you. If she’s a shy girl, she’ll become more talkative and she may share some of her secrets with you. She may touch you and she will spend all the time that you’d like with her.
There are women who are trying to play the game and seem hard to get. Not all of them are bad. Some of these women are master manipulators and unfortunately many men don’t see what’s going on. That’s why you always need to remain level-headed. Don’t fall for the sexual fluff and innuendo. Try to stay a step ahead of her, in a good way. Anticipate things, lead your dates, be a fun and easy going guy. This is what will spark more attraction between the two of you. The sexual stuff will come more naturally and you will know better when to initiate what.
As I mentioned at the beginning of the guide, don’t always expect to “read” what a woman is “trying” to tell you. Many women don’t tell anything, they just expect the guy to take charge. So if you’re paralyzed and passive about taking action, waiting on the few precious signs from the girl, you may be waiting forever. This is when you also run the risk to just be dumped into the “friends” zone, since she will give up on having that exciting feeling of expectation of “what’s next” with you.
Very important: there is a certain momentum in dating. You need to be aware of it and slightly step up the energy exchange between the two of you each time you see each other. It needs to be an “up” trend, as opposed to a “downward” energy. This is what will really move the dating in the right direction, and eventually into the intimacy stage.
You can also hint at certain things and see her reaction. A great way to get to know each other is to play a game of question and answer. This gives you the opportunity to find out things about her and disclose things about you without having to be too forward. It’s a great way to build a connection between the two of you and you will become more and more comfortable initiating certain things after you’ve gotten those answers in the game. Just make sure to ask each other questions in turn and do it in a playful way. Don’t be too pushy with sexual questions or innuendo. Just take a gentle approach and once in a while drop in a more daring question.
For example, you can ask questions such as:
- What do you like to do for fun?
- What’s your ideal date?
- What kind of guys do you like: conservative-looking, racy, with a goatee, trendy, well-dressed, clean-shaven etc?
- What kind of subjects do you discuss with your girlfriends about the guys you date?
- What is your favorite color?
- What is the one thing that turns you off in a guy? (Be prepared for this one, but don’t take it personally.)
- What kinds of food do you like the most?
- What was your best date ever?
- What was your worst date ever?
There are millions of questions you could ask and not all of them need to be related to dating. As a matter of fact, just sprinkle the questions about dating and sex here and there, but don’t overdo it. You don’t want to come off as too pushy or too eager. This would creep her out. Remember, it needs to remain a playful way of getting to know each other.
As you’re getting more and more comfortable with each other, there will be a moment when she’ll expect you to initiate a first kiss. Don’t expect HER to do it. Most women won’t do it first, even if they totally adore the guy. What’s sexy about a man is his leadership and confidence. This also goes for the more sexual things.
Before even trying a first kiss, you could also take her hand while you’re walking or if you’re sitting near each other and watching a movie. You may feel some electricity flow between the two of you. This means you have some strong chemistry.
The more chemistry though, the more you need to pace yourself. Why? Because you don’t want the sexual attraction you have for each other to blow up in your face. Often, all the mystery disappears and the relationship will fall apart if you initiate it too soon without getting to know each other.
It’s much better to build it up slowly. It will be even more incredible then. Try to work on win-win situations, as opposed to win-lose scenarios when dating a woman.
Let’s get back to the first kiss. If she’s responding to your playfulness, and possibly holding your hand when you take hers, it may be the time to go for that first kiss. Make it romantic and special. Don’t make it too long, so you don’t overwhelm her or you. Just give her a nice kiss (not just a peck though) and then squeeze her hand tighter and keep walking, or talking, or whatever you’re doing. Don’t ever ask a woman if you can kiss her. This is the proverbial “Kiss of Death” and trust me, it will be! It will kill all the chemistry quickly. It pretty much will send a signal that you are not very sure of yourself, or of your connection with her. You need to just do it.
As I explained, the first kiss comes at the moment when you’re comfortable and playful with each other. There will be a certain expectation in the air and this is the time to go for it. If you miss the moment, it’s not the end of the world, but you do need to keep a good momentum going. Otherwise things may start cooling off.
As you can see, there won’t be just one clear signal coming from the woman. The signal will be the great time you’re spending together and her agreement to have more dates with you. The signal will be your comfort level and the spark you may be feeling between the two of you. Women expect a man to be strong, but you also need to cultivate a certain sensitivity to women. This will help you in picking up more subtle cues as to when it’s a good time to move to the next level – in this case a kiss.
Women will occasionally kiss you first, which makes things easier. But ideally, you want to be the first one to initiate it.
Once you’ve had the first kiss, don’t go and start French kissing for the next 10 minutes. Like I said before, just be light and flexible. Keep doing whatever you were doing. You can stroke her hair and look her in the eyes, but this first moment needs to be quick and light. No heavy-duty stuff, please.
Okay, so you’ve successfully passed this test. Now you can comfortably give her a kiss hello and goodbye the next time you see her. It’s also an important moment to give a little bit more attention and affection to your girl. As you progress in seeing your woman, she also expects you to come through with other things a little bit more. It just is the logical progression in seeing each other.
I suggest you keep seeing each other and be playful, but don’t initiate sex yet. Sometimes, it pays off to ask it directly. But often, it comes off better if you just playfully mention it or play a game about it or let the chemistry (slowly) lead you in that direction.
Remember, most women will be more than willing to be intimate with you, but it needs to be done the right way and at the right time.
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